Finding Beauty in the Broken

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Whilst having a quiet day home today I came upon an interesting article.
It made me think.
About life, people and things.

But let’s take a few steps back some years to when my son and his wife came visiting from Texas.

Texas shares it’s border with Mexico, so naturally there is quite a connection with its food and culture.

There is beautiful pottery. Colourful designs and patterns. So many differing styles. Rich earthy or clashing hues.

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Our loved ones brought over two bowls ever so carefully wrapped. One smallish bowl in earthy hues survived intact and still now sits facing me as I type today.

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The other larger bowl sadly was in a few big pieces plus slivers!

Yet I still held onto it wrapped in plastic, for an age.

One day I decided that there would be no harm in trying to glue it back together.
Needless to say it took me a long time needing much patience.

Because many of the pieces were slivers it was impossible to make a perfect join. There were sections where I could see through. Gaps. Dots of glue holding this fragile beauty in place.

But I had my thing of beauty.
Imperfect.
Fragile
A labour of love twice
A tenuous connection with family far away

I looked at this dish often when I walked past, even more so as it had a real emotional hands on tug at my heart .

It was not to be a perfect gift, instead there was a better gift.
Lasting through many years of fragility it finally died, but it made an impression which when reading this article brought it all back to mind.

Thank you Mike and Denise

Perfectness does not make us.

Now go and follow the link and read the article by Tim Willard
Beauty in brokenness”

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3 thoughts on “Finding Beauty in the Broken

  1. Thanks for the lovely thoughts and link Alexa. Some time ago I read an article on the Japanese design principle entitled ‘wabi sabi’ which is beauty in the imperfect. I realized that I subscribed to that design principle myself: partly through necessity but also I found that I admired the beauty of an object which showed the truthfulness of wear and tear, pre- loved and resilient.

    Your blog really touched me today – we all have days when we don’t feel strong. Thanks once again.

    • Welcome Rachel and thanks for coming by and leaving a lovely comment. My reply is somewhat rather late. May you have some memorable days to balance life. Sending you our wonderful blue sky we have here today…balm to the soul. Love Alexa x

  2. A lovely read, Alexa! Thank you. xo

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